Registering at the Bank

According to family report my mother is now telling people that "they're registered at the bank, write them a check," despite the fact that we are indeed registered for actual gifts.

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It's kind of hilarious and slightly embarrassing, just like my childhood. Thankfully she's only telling MY family- who all know how "funny" she can be. We didn't necessarily want monetary gifts over actual gifts, but who would complain?!

I know there are more tactful ways to ask for money so I assembled some here for the frugal bride...

1. 'They are registered at [store name], but they are really trying to save up money for their [honeymoon/house].'
2. Some websites suggest creating a small registry or not registering at all.
3. You could create a Honeymoon Registry 
4. , but I'd also suggest creating a real gift registry for your guests who prefer to give you gifts- because they will still buy you something. 
5. There's always a poem on the website (via Wedaholic.com) "If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help us on our way. A gift of cash towards our house, would really make our day. However, if you prefer to purchase a gift, feel free to surprise us in your own way."

Some of them more cheesier than others, but I highly recommend #1 if you are looking to receive gifts of money rather than items.